You recently found out that your aging parents can’t live on their own anymore, so you’re now left with a difficult decision: do you look for a senior living center or attempt to care for them yourself?

As you think back on all the ways your parents helped you, you decide to try and help your parents yourself.

When you take on this task, you’ll go through many emotions. Here are some tips to help you make the most of this experience and give your parents the care they need and deserve.

Tip #1: Accept the Changes in Life

It can be challenging to accept the new changes in life when you start taking care of your elderly parents. You remember them as young and physically capable of anything. But now, the roles shifted, and you must care for them.

Tip #2: Objectively Determine How Much Care is Needed

Everyone needs different levels of care. Both of your parents may need help, or only one of them needs assistance. Regardless of how it all plays out, you need to objectively determine how much care each aging parent needs and whether or now you can give that care.

As a family caregiver, start by talking with the doctors and thoroughly learning about your parent’s health conditions. After speaking with the doctors, schedule and plan how you will care for your parents’ health in your home.

Tip #3: Set Realistic Standards for the Care You Can Give

You must set realistic expectations and standards for yourself as you work on objectively determining how much care is needed. You are not a professional caregiver. Therefore, you aren’t equipped to help your parents with every condition they might have.

Tip #4: Get the Right Help

Once you know what you can do to help your parents, get the best help you can find for the other things. Professionals are equipped and trained to handle every aspect of personal care and help with a medical emergency. Spend time researching and meeting representatives from multiple companies to find the best fit for your family.

Tip #5: Count the Cost

Regardless of how much you help your parents, there’s a financial, emotional, mental, and physical cost.

Families often overlook the cost of caring for parents because they want to help them. Unfortunately, senior care is expensive and can hurt your finances if you aren’t equipped to take on the cost of care necessary.  Talk with a family member about the cost and see how they can help.


We love families who care about their parents and want to help them every step of the way. We want to support those who diligently work to care for their aging parents, which is why we offer various plans at Pivotal Health Care.

Find a nearby community in the Midwest if you’ve reached a point where you can no longer give your parents the care they need.

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